March 28, 2013

speak with your mind

speak less, listen more, I guess it takes me a while to learn that.

说者无心,听者有意, it will be disastrous in the end.

I better keep that in mind

1 comment:

Unknown said...

Listen without the intent to reply. That is the hardest for me. It is so natural to let what they say remind you of something else which you then tell and before the long the conversation has bounced around all over and no one is satisfied, no one feels like they were "listened to" no one was heard.

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